Support your partner in his work without losing his head

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The work of your partner is not your competence, learn how to make your ally in the following sentences. Support your partner in your work without losing your mind.

Most women have a relationship of love and hate with their partner’s work. On the one hand, it is excellent because it provides enough to cover needs and desires and plans; However, many times the work does not stay at work, it comes to the house and that is the most difficult part to cope with. Many times, work is not the blessing but the intruder in the relationship. You know: the other woman is not always another woman.

With all the confusion and mixed feelings about their employment it is difficult to find a balance; However, we women have to find it, because if one thing is certain it is that the work will not go anywhere -and when it goes away we can not wait to have it back-, so we have to find a way to make sure that Occupation does not become an obstacle in the relationship and, ultimately, not the reason why they fight constantly.

I list some ideas to support your partner about it even when it is difficult to do so:

Curiosity

Something common is to ask how it was in his day, but not as a learned routine, but really feel curiosity and desire to know what he did during his day. Ask with the same interest that you would like him to ask you about your journey.

A sincere question

Many times – and more, if you have a perfectionist couple – the work they are doing can wait, but they want to move forward for the next day, or “perfect” what has already been done. During those moments you have to ask with all sincerity: “Is it absolutely essential that you do that at this time, or can you wait until tomorrow?”. Sometimes the answer will be that it is not necessary, but in others it is, and we must respect it because we are aware that responsibility corresponds to all work. It is important that he be honest in his response, and remind him that he should be sincere if he expects you to respect what he is doing and that there are no problems.

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Set limits

It is important to set limits on days and hours when work is not allowed, such as dating, family time, vacations, etc. In the same way it is important to remember that if there is an emergency, there must be exceptions to this rule.

Gratitude

This is an important point, since what I wrote earlier is true: we hate work, but if one day we lose we pray to return. With all, give thanks not only for the employment of your partner, but because every day he goes and exercises it with good spirit and disposition in order to provide for you and your whole family.

The work of your partner does not have to be your enemy, there are ways to support it while exercising limits and always welcome gratitude, which in its entirety will help you not to lose your head and see your work as your competition.

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